The way you take care
The way you care for other people is exactly the care you're not giving yourself. That's not a compliment. It's a pattern worth breaking, and here's how.
Become What is Possible


The way you care for other people is exactly the care you're not giving yourself. That's not a compliment. It's a pattern worth breaking, and here's how.

Worry doesn't need the whole day, just a fraction of the space we give it. One client's worry hour revealed something surprising: when finally heard, worry quiets fast. What else has been waiting for room to show up?

There's a jar on my desk right now. It's full of confetti. Not the party kind, the kind made from old sticky notes, cut into tiny pieces after I finish whatever was written on them. By the end of the month it's nearly full, and . . .

Eventually, with almost every client, I land on some version of the same question: what would you do differently if fear wasn't a factor?